Our House: Learning the Art of Compromising

As continue our Rewind 1980s month, today we take a look at Our House, another family dramedy. Our House debuted in 1986 on NBC and ran for two seasons, producing 46 episodes.

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James Lee Barrett created the series. He would receive credit for writing all 46 episodes. He passed away a year after it was cancelled. He also developed and wrote the scripts for In the Heat of the Night.

The premise of the show is that three generations of family members live together and cope with the ups and downs of daily life. When John Witherspoon (Patrick Duffy) passes away, his widow Jessie (Deidre Hall) moves her three children from Fort Wayne, Indiana to California to live with her father-in-law, Gus (Wilford Brimley), a widower.

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Gus thinks his grandkids should be raised the same way his kids were, but Jessie doesn’t always agree with his rules and methods. Gus’s neighbor and best friend Joe is a bit easier to get along with. When Gus invites the family to move in with him, Joe (Gerald O’Laughlin) says, “You’re set in your ways. It could be fatal.” The kids had to learn that beneath Gus’s gruff exterior, he was a gentle and loving man, and he had to learn how to impart life lessons to them without sounding like an old grouch. During the run of the show, Gus learns he must change his view on some things, and his grandkids realize he has a lot of wisdom to share. The show manages to uphold traditional values while exploring contemporary social issues and being open minded about them.

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Gus likes living alone, being retired, and enjoying quiet time, but he knows Jessie needs help to and does the right thing. One of the things viewers remember most about this show was the beautiful old Victorian house they lived in.

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Deidre Hall plays the part of Jessie. She is best known for her role of Marlena on Days of Our Lives, and it’s interesting to note that she continued playing the role of Marlena while she starred in this show. Dee Wallace Stone, the mom on ET, was originally offered the part, but she declined. When Jessie gets to California, one of her priorities is to become financially stable. She gets a job as an administrative assistant. Eventually Jessie begins dating again which is hard for both her and Gus.

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Kris, 15 and the oldest, is played by Shannen Doherty. She wants to get into the Air Force like her father. Doherty would go on to find fame as Brenda on Beverly Hills 90210.

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David (Chad Allen), 12, is the middle child and only son. Allen would later appear on Doctor Quinn, Medicine Woman for five years.

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The youngest is Molly, 8, played by Keri Houlihan. She is a sweet and mild-tempered girl who wants to make everyone happy and for everyone to get along. Molly also brought her dog, Arthur, a basset hound.

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Joe Kaplan is the same age as Gus. While they don’t always agree, Joe is sometimes the voice of reason for Gus. Gus always listens to him and respects his viewpoint even if he thinks it’s the wrong perspective.

Michael Baum of the Los Angeles Times wrote of this show: “Our house is such a nice, sweet, good-natured show, and Wilford Brimley is so wonderfully endearing in the lead role . . . Please, NBC, preserve this warm and entertaining show for all us softies at heart.”

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Unfortunately, the show was up against Sixty Minutes, and the ratings never achieved anything significant. If Sixty Minutes wasn’t bad enough, in season two it also had to face The Disney Sunday Movie. It ranked 59th in season one and 71st in season two.

I’m not sure why the network was not willing to move the show in season two and see if more viewers turned in without the pressure of Sixty Minutes.

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I understand this show was not of Shakespearian quality, but it was a wholesome show and never really got a chance to get off the ground. Having a diverse group of people and different ages learn to live together peacefully under the same roof was interesting to watch. Everyone learned about compromise and family values. The cast was made up of good actors and the plot was different from most other family shows at the time. Brimley had just the right amount of crotchetiness. His character sets the tone for the entire show. He could have been too grouchy, turning off viewers but he made the show charming instead.

2 thoughts on “Our House: Learning the Art of Compromising

  1. The show seems like it could have had a ton of story lines. I feel like there are quite a few shows that introduce a 3rd generation of the family, but not as a father-in-law without the husband. That’s an interesting twist. I could definitely see the dating thing being difficult for everyone.

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