Barbara Billingsley: She Knows Jive

We are in the midst of our blog theme, Model Parents, and today we get to know June Cleaver, also known as Barbara Billingsley.

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Billingsley was born in Los Angeles in 1915. Barbara’s parents divorced when she was under five; her dad was a policeman, who was eventually appointed the assistant Chief of Police, and her mom worked at a knitting mill.

Her mother used to take her and her sister to the movies quite often, so she was exposed to all the top actors growing up. She also loved tennis and she said you could play at night. You put a quarter in this machine and it lit up the court so you got an hour to play.

Billingsley left college after a year to appear in a Broadway review. When the show closed after only five days, Barbara decided to stay and began working as a fashion model for Stephen Sondheim’s mother and later Hattie Carnegie. She didn’t have an easy time there; she said she was so innocent and no one had talked to her about life, so she grew up quickly.

She married her husband Glenn in 1941 and four years later she was offered a contract with MGM Studios. The couple moved to Los Angeles where Glenn opened a steakhouse. Unfortunately, their marriage didn’t last and they divorced in 1947, with two young sons.

She would appear in 46 films, most of them in the forties. One of her last movie roles was probably her most famous when she appeared in Airplane!

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After 1950 most of her roles were on television. Her first exposure to television was in 1939 in a friend’s New York apartment. Unlike Jane Wyatt and her friends, Billingsley thought it was fascinating.

During the fifties she appeared in a lot of the dramatic playhouse series that were so popular that decade. Her first recurring role was as Barbara on The Box Brothers. In this show, imdb.com states “the two Box brothers were polar opposites who ran a photography studio in San Francisco. Gilly (Bob Sweeney) is the shy retiring sibling, while excitable Harvey (Gale Gordon) is domineering. Harvey dates self-assured Margaret while Gilly’s girl is quiet Marilee.”

In 1953 she married director Roy Kellino, and the marriage lasted for three years when he passed away. Her last marriage to Dr. William S. Mortenson began in 1959 and ended in 1981 when he passed away.

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Her next recurring role would make her a household name. In 1957 she accepted the offer to star in Leave It to Beaver. The series was created for Buddy Ebsen and that’s who Billingsley tested with. She went for the audition even though she and her husband at the time were getting ready to leave for Spain where he was directing a movie. Her husband passed away before they left, so when she was asked about taking the part for the new sitcom, she said yes. In the pilot Ebsen was replaced by Max Showalter. It was an episode of Playhouse 57 called “It’s a Small World.” She said she was happy that Hugh Beaumont ended up with the part once the show was ready to begin taping, and she said that he was the best father on television.

The show became a big hit, airing for five seasons. She starred with Beaumont, who we’ll talk about next week; Jerry Mathers; and Tony Dow.

Billingsley was often stereotyped as the typical suburban mother cleaning her house while wearing pearls. However, the real story behind the pearls is a much simpler one. Barbara had a hollow in her neck that she was self-conscious about, so she thought wearing a string of pearls would help hide it. She was also made fun of vacuuming in high heels. She said she wore flats the first year or two, but when the boys began getting taller, the producers wanted her to wear heels, so they didn’t surpass her in height.

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Barbara defended June Cleaver when others complained about sitcom life not being realistic. Billingsley said June “was the love in that family. She set a good example for what a wife could be. I had two boys at home when I did the show. I think the character became kind of like me and vice versa. I’ve never known where one started and where one stopped.” She said she thought most people would appreciate a mother like June. “Wouldn’t it be nice if you came home from school and there was Mom standing there with her little apron and cookies waiting?” Her “sons” on the show considered her a mentor and a second mother.

The one thing Billingsley regretted about the show was signing the typical contract that paid actors residuals for up to six reruns. Who knew Leave it To Beaver would still be on the air almost seventy years after it debuted.

She stayed close to the cast of Leave It to Beaver. She said, “No father on television was better than Hugh.” After his death, she said she missed “him very much because we were so close.” She was also close to Richard Deacon who she, like almost everyone else who knew him, described as incredibly funny.

Jerry Mathers talked about his friendship with Barbara after her death. “For me she was like the favorite teacher that we all had in school. I was lucky enough to work with her for six years and have a life-long relationship with her. She was a very kind woman and a generous philanthropist who supported many charities, always ready to give anyone in need a helping hand.

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After the show ended, Barbara was typecast and couldn’t find a role she wanted. She traveled abroad off and on for about seventeen years. With the exception of an appearance on The FBI, she would not be seen on tv again until the 1980s after her role on the satire Airplane! While she is only on camera a couple of minutes, her role in the movie is memorable. As a jab at her very white suburban mom role of June Cleaver, Barbara comes to the aid of a stewardess who can’t understand two passengers having an argument. The passengers were Al White and Norman Alexander Gibbs, and the sweet, grandmotherly Barbara tells the stewardess that she knows jive and she proceeds to talk to and berate the two for arguing. The script initially just said “speak jive,” so Billingsley went to lunch with Al White and Norman Alexander Gibbs (the “Jive Dudes”) and they improvised the dialogue together.While she doesn’t even have a name in the movie, this cameo sparked her career and she continued to get fan mail for years.

During the 1980s she appeared on several shows including Mork & Mindy, Silver Spoons, and The Love Boat. From 1985-1989 she reprised her role of June Cleaver on The New Leave It to Beaver show.

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She showed up in several shows in the nineties including Empty Nest and Murphy Brown. Her final credit was in a made-for-tv movie, Secret Santa, in 2003.

Billingsley passed away in her home in 2010.

When she wasn’t acting, her interests included gardening, watching movies, playing tennis, sewing, traveling, and spending time with her family.

One thing Barbara said she regretted was not getting an education in drama before becoming an actress. She said she was able to take some classes later, but the people who came to Hollywood with education degrees had much more confidence. And later she learned that the two key skills for actors are relaxation and concentration. Without both, the job is too hard.

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When asked how she wanted to be remembered, she echoed Jane Wyatt, saying that she wanted to be known as a good mother and wife. She said she’d like people to remember Leave it to Beaver, but if they think she raised a good family, that’s important and she wants to be a good example.

I think it’s fascinating that our two moms in our “Model Parents” theme both focused on their family life rather than their professional life. They came from very different backgrounds with Wyatt growing up in a wealthy family where both parents chose to work and Billingsley growing up in a middle-class family where her mother had to work to help support her family. They proved by their actions that the mothers on Father Knows Best and Leave It to Beaver did live realistic lives, and these two moms chose to live this same life off the set as well.

Lucille Ball: A Force To Be Reckoned With

This month we are learning why We All Love Lucy. We’ll delve into her sitcoms and get to know Jess Oppenheimer and hear about his role in her television life. But today, we are starting with the woman herself, Lucille Ball.

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Lucille Desiree Ball was born August 6, 1911, in Jamestown, New York. She was the only daughter of Henry Durrell Ball, a lineman for Bell Telephone, and Desiree Evelyn Hunt Ball. They lived at 60 Stewart Avenue. The family belonged to the Baptist Church there, and many of her relatives were among some of the first European settlers in Massachusetts.

The family moved frequently for her father’s career, but Jamestown always had a claim on Lucy, and they celebrate her in many ways there. The family lived in Montana, New Jersey, and Michigan before her father passed away from typhoid fever at age 27 in 1914.

Her mother returned to New York, living in Celoron, a summer resort on Chautauqua Lake. The road she grew up on is now named Lucy Lane. Celoron had an amusement park with a boardwalk, the Pier Ballroom, a roller coaster, a bandstand, and a stage.

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Lucy’s mother remarried four years later. It was her stepfather who encouraged Lucy to audition for his Shriner’s chorus line, which gave her the first taste of what it would be like to be in show business. When she was 16 the family returned to Jamestown.

When Lucy was only 14, she was dating a 21-year-old hoodlum. Her mother was devastated by the situation and finally enrolled Lucy in the John Murra Anderson School for Dramatic Arts in New York City to encourage her in her theater career. Ball did not love the school, and her instructors told her she would not be successful in the entertainment business. Luckily, Lucy did not take their comments to heart. She later said that “one of the things I learned the hard way was that it doesn’t pay to get discouraged. Keeping busy and making optimism a way of life can restore faith in yourself.”

In an attempt to prove the school wrong, Lucy began working as an in-house model for Hattie Carnegie. This was where she first changed her hair. Being a brunette, Carnegie taught Ball to bleach her hair blonde. Her modeling was interrupted for two years when she dealt with the effects of rheumatic fever.

At the ripe old age of 21, Ball returned to New York City to pursue an acting career. She went back to the Carnegie agency and became the Chesterfield Cigarette Girl.

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In 1933 she was in Roman Scandals as a Goldwyn Girl; while playing a slave girl, she had to have her eyebrows entirely shaved off, and they never grew back. Some of the things an actor goes through for roles is crazy. After that movie she moved to Hollywood to try a film career. After becoming a contract player for RKO Radio Pictures, she received a decent amount of work. At this time, she met the Marx Brothers, appearing in Room Service. She also worked with Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers in several musicals.

When she registered to vote in 1936, both she, her brother, and her mother registered as Communists. During that year she signed a document as a Communist supporting Emil Freed for assembly and was appointed delegate to the State Central Committee of the Communist Party of California.

Ball later claimed she never had a strong political affiliation. In 1944, Lucy can be seen in a newsreel fund raising for Franklin Roosevelt. She also mentioned that she voted for Eisenhower in 1952 when he was on the Republican docket. In 1953 Ball met with HUAC and gave a sealed testimony. She said that she voted Communist at her grandfather’s insistence and did not know she had been appointed a delegate. Before filming episode 68 of their show, her husband and co-star Desi addressed the audience and said Lucy was not a Communist; she was just influenced by her grandfather. He joked that “the only thing red about Lucy is her hair, and even that is not legitimate.”

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In the late thirties, she dabbled in radio to earn some additional money. She was a regular on “The Phil Baker Show” and on “The Wonder Show” where she met announcer Gale Gordon.

In 1940 Lucy met Desi Arnaz when they both appeared in the movie Too Many Girls. They fell in love immediately, and before the year was out, they eloped. Arnaz was drafted in 1942, but a knee injury kept him from active service, and he was placed in Hollywood organizing and performing USO shows for wounded GIs.

Lucy finally got her big break in 1943. Arthur Freed was making a movie based on the play “DuBarry Was a Lady”; he bought it for Ann Sothern, but when she turned it down, she recommended her best friend, Lucille Ball.

In 1944, Ball filed for divorce, but the couple reconciled before it went through. Lucy and Desi had Lucie in 1951 when Lucy was almost 40, and son Desi was born during the series and written into the scripts in 1953. Mom and son appeared on the first cover of TV Guide which came out in 1953.

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Ball continued to make movies throughout the forties and kept a foot in radio. In 1948 she was cast as Liz Cooper on the radio show, “My Favorite Husband” on CBS.

When CBS wanted to transition the show to television, Lucy wanted Desi to be her television husband. CBS said no, so the couple went on the road with an act to prove the popularity of the them working together and CBS backed down.

The show was incredibly successful. (If you want to learn more details about the series and all the history that it produced, keep an eye out for my blog which will post January 13, 2025.) The couple created their own production company and had many “firsts” with technology producing their show. During filming breaks of the show, Lucy and Desi made two movies: The Long, Long Trailer in 1954 and Forever, Darling in 1956.

After years of turmoil and ups and downs in their marriage, the couple divorced. However, they continued to remain in each other’s lives through their children and their relationship. Later in life, Lucy said “Desi was the great love of my life. I will miss him until the day I die.”

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Lucy bought Desi’s share in the production company which produced a variety of shows including Mission: Impossible, Star Trek, and The Untouchables. In 1967 Lucy sold her shares to Gulf+Western, owned by Paramount, for $17 million, which would translate into $138 million today.

Lucy married Gary Morton in 1961. At the time, Morton was a comedian 13 years younger than Lucy. He said he had never seen an episode of I Love Lucy. Ball hired Morton for her production company, teaching him the television business.

For the next decade, Lucy worked on a number of television specials. She also tried sitcom life again. She starred in The Lucy Show from 1962-68 and in Here’s Lucy from 1968-1974. We’ll discuss these shows the last week of January. Many of Lucy’s friends appeared on these shows. Her close friends included Mary Jane Croft, Judy Garland, Ethel Merman, Barbara Pepper, Ginger Rogers, Ann Sothern, Vivian Vance, and Mary Wickes.

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Ball kept busy acting during the early 1980s. Desi Arnaz passed away in 1986. In 1988 Lucy had a mild heart attack. She appeared at the 1989 Academy Awards show and she and co-presenter Bob Hope were given standing ovations. She died a month later. Lucy had been a heavy smoker, and her cause of death was abdominal aortic aneurysm which is seen more in smokers.

Lucy always sent flowers to Carol Burnett on her birthday. The day before she died, she ordered them, and they were delivered a few hours after Carol learned of her death.

Lucy was cremated and her ashes were interred in Forest Lawn Cemetery with her mother’s remains. In 2002, both women’s remains were moved to the Hunt family plot in Jamestown. In Jamestown you can find the Lucille Ball Desi Arnaz Museum & Center for Comedy and the Lucille Ball Little Theater.

In 2009 a statue of Lucy was erected in Celoron. Many people called it “scary,” and it became known as “Scary Lucy,” which I totally endorse. In 2016, a more lifelike statue was created to replace Scary, but the scary statue had become so popular, it was left on display with the new one as its neighbor.

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Those two statues symbolize my relationship with the show. I appreciate the show and everything it did to create the classic age of television. Whether it’s technical filming strategies, the writing, the way the business was run, everything was important in this show. However, I have to admit, it’s not a show I choose to watch. It changed the entire course of television in similar ways that All in the Family would do a few decades later, but I honestly don’t enjoy watching either of these series. That might be a fault in my genes, but I also have to be honest.

However, Lucy Ricardo, while we may think of her as naĂŻve and sophisticated, traditional and unconventional, submissive and disobedient, was an important icon in the way that women thought about themselves in the fifties.

Women had been brought in to work and gain independence while so many men were overseas fighting, and then they were asked to give it all up and go back to a domestic and tranquil life. Leslie Feldman, a political scientist and author of The Political Theory of I Love Lucy, writes that Lucy was “a transitional figure—she’s on the cutting edge.  . . Are [women] going to stay home and be wives and mothers? Are they going to go to work? Or are they going to do both? And what if they really do better and earn more money than their husbands? What about that? That’s an element of Lucy too.”

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Lucy was a force in show business. While she was not alone in taking control of her own career—Donna Reed, Betty White, and Ann Sothern were also powerhouses in establishing their own companies and running them—Lucy did it with the nation watching her. Even the choices she made about whether to divorce Desi or not were all done in the public eye and were sending messages whether people chose to receive them or not.

Lucille Ball was an amazing actress and an amazing business person. Apart from whether I enjoy watching the show or not, it changed the history of television and the way sitcoms were written, cast, and remembered. Thank you, Lucille Ball, for not listening when your instructors told you that you would never make it in show business. You not only made it in television, you truly made television what it is today.