Family: The Perfect Blend of Intelligent Writing, Superb Acting, and Warm Fuzzy Feelings

This month we are doing a 1980s Rewind, looking at some memorable shows from that decade. We start with one of my all-time favorite series, Family. I think this is one of the most disrespected and underrated shows from the past fifty years. It had an amazing cast, and the scripts were intelligent and well written.

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The show ran on ABC from 1976-1980, producing 86 episodes. The critically acclaimed show had three well-known producers: Leonard Goldberg, Aaron Spelling, and Mike Nichols. Jay Presson Allen created the series, and she wrote every episode.

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Kate (Sada Thompson) and Doug (James Broderick) Lawrence are an upper middle-class couple living in Pasadena, CA. They have three children: Nancy (Meredith Baxter Birney), Willie (Gary Frank), and Letitia (Kristy McNichol), known as Buddy. Doug is a lawyer, hoping to become a judge. He is a warm-hearted person who often finds humor in their family situations. Kate is a practical woman but can come across as a cold woman. She can be quite passionate and loves her family very much but has trouble showing a lot of affection. She always does what she feels is morally right. She has sacrificed her dreams to stay home and raise her family. Later in the show she does go back to school to major in music.

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The original cast with Elayne Heilveil as Nancy

In the pilot, Nancy was played by Elayne Heilveil, but Meredith Baxter Birney took over the role once the series began. Cheryl Ladd also auditioned for the part of Nancy. Spelling remembered her and later cast her in Charlie’s Angels. Nancy finds her husband Jeff (John Rubinstein) in the act of cheating on her and moves back to her parents’ home, living in their guest house with her son Timmy. Even though Nancy and Jeff are divorced, they are friends, and he appears on the show often and is involved in Timmy’s life. The Lawrences also had a son named Timmy who died when he was little. Nancy and her mother often butt heads. In the second season, Nancy decides to go to law school and is very successful.

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Willie is always trying to find himself and can’t quite decide who he is. He has a high IQ but drops out of school. He dreams of being a writer and later works for a photography studio for a while.

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Buddy was a tweenager. Buddy is a tomboy and well liked by her friends and family. She had two famous boyfriends during the show: TJ played by Willie Aames and Leif Garrett. Buddy is much closer to her mother than Nancy is. Nancy and Buddy have a trying relationship too, although they both want to be closer. Willie and Buddy are very close.

Everyone in our actual families could find someone in the show to relate to. I notice myself looking at the show from a different perspective now than I did in my teen years.

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There were 24 different directors during the series’ run. Richard Kinon directed almost 25 percent of the shows. Kinon had directed episodes of many classic shows including Bewitched, Hogan’s Heroes, The Patty Duke Show, The Partridge Family, Room 222, and That Girl. After Family, he would direct a quarter of The Love Boat episodes. James Broderick directed four of the episodes. Not surprising for me was learning that Marshall Herskovitz and Edward Zwick also tried their hand at directing. Both of them were also listed as producers and writers of the show. They would later go on to help create thirtysomething, a show we’ll learn about next week. Both men were also involved with Once and Again and Nashville, among other shows.

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The storylines were very realistic and handled with delicacy and intelligence. Some of the topics the show tackled included breast cancer, infidelity, senility, divorce, adoption, terminal illness as well as the typical teenage issues faced by most youth.

In the last season, the Lawrences adopt Annie Cooper (Quinn Cummings) after her parents are killed in a car accident. They were her parents’ friends and their choice for guardians if anything happened to them.

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Rubinstein who played Jeff composed the theme music. Apparently, he inherited some musical genes from his father, Arthur Rubinstein, the famous classical musician. He has continued his dual career in both acting and composing since the show ended.

A couple other cast members also had famous relatives. Broderick’s son is Matthew Broderick, actor, and Baxter Birney’s mother was Whitney Blake who played Missy on Hazel, among other roles.

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The show was nominated for an Emmy for Outstanding Drama Series in 1977, 1978, and 1980. Thompson, Frank and McNichol all won Emmys, and Broderick and Baxter Birney were nominated as well.

I could not find a reason for it, but only the first two seasons have been released on DVD and that was in 2006. I have not seen the show in syndication for many years.

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One of my favorite television homes: the Lawrence house

Plans were made for a 1988 reunion movie. James Broderick had passed away, but he rest of the cast was on board. When the writers went on strike, the project was placed on hold and later dropped from production.

I watched a few of the episodes from season one. The show still holds up today.  Although it closely mirrored the social issues from its era, those topics are still relevant today. It may have included some melodrama, but it never was about melodrama.  It contained enough humor to offset the tragedy just like real life. Doug and Kate had strong moral values and they passed them on to their children but understood life was changing and they could not be close minded.

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Jay Presson Allen

Jay Presson Allen brought insightful writing to every script, but the incredible acting brought the characters to life.

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Sada Thompson was not overly affectionate but calmed her children down and could discuss anything with them. They relied on her guidance and wisdom. She embodied class and elegance. I was surprised to learn that Lear had hired her to play Archie Bunker’s blue-collar neighbor, a plumber named Irene Lorenzo for All in the Family. I was not surprised to learn that Betty Garrett replaced her in the role because Sada had too much genuine class and didn’t yell loud enough for Lear. James Broderick discussed working with Thompson. He said he “was only one of her many fans. Sada is about as close as we get in this country to the British super actresses like Dame Edith Evans and Dame May Whitty. I’m sure if Sada lived in England, the Queen would have dubbed her Dame Sada a long time ago.”

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Broderick flawlessly captured the fun nature of Doug Lawrence. Doug left the disciplining up to his wife most of the time and was not as serious as his wife. Doug and Kate were also very affectionate with each other.

FAMILY, Meredith Baxter Birney (aka Meredith Baxter), 1976-80
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Baxter Birney was the perfect combination of brains and beauty who wanted to be the wife and mother she saw in her mom as well as the respected lawyer she saw in her father.

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Frank portrayed the young adult who couldn’t figure out what he wanted from life. He was not a “sit behind the desk kind of guy,” but needed to make a living. Willie was more interested in the humanities and finding meaning in life. He always seemed to be in difficult relationships.  Early in his adult years, he fell head over heels in love only to find out she was pregnant before they met and she left him eventually but weaved in and out of his life for years. He later met his soul mate, but she had terminal cancer, so even though they married, they only had a short time together.

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McNichol was believable as a young girl moving into her teens and dealing with all the stress and changes teens go through.  She was funny, silly and loveable and could be irritating occasionally and whiny, just like teens are. McNichol appeared very mature for her age and seemed to have everything under control, but it was a façade. She said she “was like a miniature adult.” She’d go off to the set “every day with a little briefcase. I really think I grew up backwards.” Dinah Manoff, who guest starred on Family before acting on Empty Nest with McNichol said “Kris was the most adult kid I’d ever met. She didn’t even have to study her lines. They’d hand them to her right before she walked out on the set.”  Thompson once remembered that the adults “used to talk about how amazing it was that Kristy didn’t appear to feel any of the pressures of growing up as a successful child actress. The cost is enormous, you know, but Kristy didn’t seem to be paying it.” Unfortunately, she paid it with interest a few years after the show ended. When she was a young adult, she began to rebel and made some very poor choices, trying to recapture the childhood that she never got to experience.

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I don’t remember a lot about the role of Annie Cooper. Once Buddy began growing up, she was brought in to continue storylines kids could relate to. She had just been nominated for an Academy award for The Good-bye Girl and seemed to transition into the show easily.

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Hopefully the rest of the seasons are released on DVD so we can continue to appreciate the remarkable blend of writing, acting, and directing that was featured on this show.

Family–that says it all: joyful, heart-breaking, boring, exciting. loving, conflict and everything in between.

9 thoughts on “Family: The Perfect Blend of Intelligent Writing, Superb Acting, and Warm Fuzzy Feelings

  1. I watched it a little when it first started. I was a big The Waltons fan, and this seemed like a more topical, modern-day version of that show. Then I went away to college and lost interest. The one show I remember is when the son had to grapple with learning his best friend was gay. Some courageous writing, but the show got a bit too solemn for me.

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    • I definitely watched more comedies but this was one of the dramas I loved. In this Rewind series I struggled a bit because I was not a fan of most 1989s comedies unless they were carryovers from the 1970s.

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  2. I’m surprised that this is one of your all-time favorite series. I don’t recall ever hearing about it! I’m obviously familiar with Matthew Broderick but didn’t know his father was a successful actor. Is it common for shows to have a lot of directors? 24 different directors sounds excessive.

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  3. I just came across this, and it’s a wonderful write up of a show I only discovered late in the past 5 years (luckily, here in Canada a free streaming service has the entire series.) I was especially interested in it because it was where Herskovitz and Zwick first connected–and their own shows (thirtysomething, Once and Again, My So-Called Life which they produced with thirtysomething writer Winnie Holzman creating, etc) have meant so much to me. You can see the seeds of those shows in Family although they would be slightly more serialized. Still, Family started the trend of a realistic drama–neither high soap opera or genre–with relatable family issues, and topical social issues handled in a non preachy way (a season 2 episode, Rites of Friendship, where Willie finds out his best friend is gay, deals with homosexuality in a far more progressive way than any other 1976 mainstream TV treatment I can think of, for example)

    One quibble though. Jay Presson Allen absolutely did not write every episode. In fact she wasn’t involved at all in a creative way after helping create the show and writing the pilot (and even that has been debated–there was even a law suit about the true source.) This wasn’t the first time Allen got perhaps more screen credit than deserved–because of union rules she is credited with the screenplay of Cabaret, even though the version filmed was completely rewritten by High Wheeler.

    Because of how the show was worked on, different writers wrote different episodes–many notable names, like David Jacobs on many season 2 episodes (he would create Dallas and Knots Landing) and Ron Cowen & Daniel Lipman, the writing couple who would go on to create Sisters and the Showtime US remake of Queer as Folk (as well as the early AIDS drama, the TV movie An Early Frost.) Richard Kramer, who would become one of the most important writers on thirtysomething, also started at Family. (Interestingly Zwick and Herskovitz wrote separately for Family–but they did meet and compare notes on the show.) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Family_episodes gives a run down of who wrote and directed what.

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    • Thank you so much for reading and commenting. I appreciate the clarification on Jay Presson Allen’s involvement with the show. I love thé Herskovitz and Zwick shows so much. I keep waiting for the thirtysomething réunion that keeps getting talked about.

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      • I’m a huge fan, as well (I even liked their failed Quarterlife web/youtube series from 15 years back which had so much potential.) In an interview, I believe in a book that published some of the best thirtysomething scripts, they even mention how working on Family gave them an idea as to what type of show they wanted to work on.

        Since the time you originally posted this, like I said CTV (a Canadian network) on their free online “throwback” server has the entire Family series uploaded and it might be worth trying even if you’re not in Canada (I’m not sure if it’s region blocked) The link is here: https://www.ctv.ca/throwback/all-ctv-throwback-shows?GENRES=axis-genre-14 A lot of the later episodes have also been uploaded recently to youtube.

        It’s really a shame no more DVD sets came out. Hell, I’m still annoyed that the third and final season of Once and Again (which of course even shares a character with thirtysomething) was announced 20 years back and never came out…

        And yes, while I was so disappointed ABC passed on the thirtysomething reunion series (if ANY show could be fascinating as a comeback, I think it really could work with thirtysomething–showing these characters 30 years later) it does sound like there’s still some hope it could happen.

        Thanks again for such a great read and thoughtful write up!

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  4. Thank you for a look back at this class show. I’ll offer one friendly amendment: Elaine Heilveil played Nancy for the show’s 6-episode spring tryout period (as opposed to the pilot only). I was actually rather disappointed when she was replaced by Meredith Baxter Birney, who, in typical Aaron Spelling style wanted to add a sexier element to the show. This gave them the opportunity to give the Nancy character more love interests with an actress who wasn’t as “plain-looking” as Heilveil.

    To me, part of the magic of Family was the casting. Sada Thompson had essentially no television exposure prior to Family. James Broderick was hardly a household name, nor was Gary Frank or Kristy McNichol (at that point). Heilveil had minimal television exposure. Because the cast wasn’t comprised of “the same old familiar character actors”, the show had a more realistic Pasadena family feel to it. That magic was damaged with the Birney substitution, especially since Birney had been a regular TV face since 1971.

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